A client brought her therapy session to our coaching. When I’m in therapy, I’m calm, articulate, and rational. Work is like the proverbial fishbowl. I’m tense and nervous. I can’t relax.
Here’s reassurance that is an integral part of the growth process.
The fact that you recognize your moods and feelings is progress enough. Many people don’t know what is happening when they feel tense, nervous and anxious.
They act on these emotions as though feelings and behaviors are out of their control. More anxiety and adverse consequences result. The fact that you can identify your emotions means you can manage them. Your daily investment is working.
Relax and take stock. You may feel tense and nervous, but those feelings will fade. Stay with it. As you observe and invest, you are bringing light to dark areas.
Keep these four things top of mind as you invest, grow, and evolve.
- Daily investment brings short bursts of clarity, confidence, and a knowing state of mind. These brief experiences are stepping stones that lead in a direction that will change your life.
- There is a goal but no timetable. Each new stepping stone brings more profound and more in-depth insight and awareness in a fascinating and fulfilling process that’s enjoyable for its own sake.
- What you cultivate grows.
- As you apply your new insight, energy, and enthusiasm toward daily problems, you begin to trust yourself, your ability, your innate strength.
One day in a flash, you realize, Aaaaaha! Strength and courage that was there all along. Daily investment created access to it.